The questions can be exciting for those who have a sense of what their purpose is. A lot of us take time to figure out what that is. This not knowing can cause fear, worry, self-doubt, anger, anxiety, depression, irritability, hopelessness. Overtime this can build up. We might respond to these pressures of “figuring it all out” by turning inward. Negative self-talk like “I’ll never be anything” or “It doesn’t matter” or “I’ll never make it” can wear on our self-esteem. Our external responses to these stressors may be noticeable in our relationships in areas such as anger, avoidance, and motivation. Sometimes our responses are even triggers to trauma experienced in our development.

Questions can start to emerge:

• How do we handle setbacks?
• How do we navigate the unknown?
• Have we explored our interests or merely been told what to do?
• Have we received encouragement?
• Do we know our strengths?
• Has anyone ever recognized them?
• Has anyone ever believed in us?
• Do we believe in ourselves?

If these questions are new, we can imagine that it would be hard to discover a sense of purpose if we don’t know our strengths, our interests, or our self-worth.

There can be a sense of comfort in hearing that others have taken all sorts of detours and alternate routes to finding their sense of purpose. It can be equally frustrating when that road remains unclear. Therapy can be a meaningful leg of that journey. A therapist or psychologist can help you understand how those aforementioned questions influence your ability to seek your sense of purpose. That understanding can create awareness. That awareness can create change. That change can create development. And that development may just help you carve out your own path.